The 5 Ways of Love Test
Find out: Which Way of Love suits you best?
The PURELEI Advent Calendar 2025 is inspired by the 5 Ways of Love – five wonderful ways to show and receive love. Whether through small gestures, big emotions, or meaningful memories – each of us has a unique way of expressing love. Do you know yours?
Take the test, note down your answer letters, and discover which Love Principle fits you best. Find out how you live and share love.
Question 1: When you feel stressed or exhausted, what helps you most?
A) Reading inspiring quotes or looking at art that reminds me of the beauty of the world.
B) Reminding myself that I already have everything I need – and doing a small act of kindness for someone else.
C) Taking time to make my surroundings more peaceful and friendly.
D) Spending time with family and friends, online or in person.
E) Planning a special experience, even if it’s just a small moment.
Question 2: How do you show your friends that you appreciate them?
A) By telling them how much I admire their unique qualities and inner strength.
B) By helping without being asked and offering support where it’s needed.
C) By always being a good listener and strengthening our friendship with respect and compassion.
D) By organizing get-togethers that bring everyone closer.
E) By creating special moments through activities we enjoy together.
Question 3: What kind of vacation appeals to you most?
A) A retreat at a peaceful spa where I can focus on my body, mind, and soul.
B) Volunteering abroad to support communities and do good.
C) An adventurous trip that connects me with new cultures and broadens my horizons.
D) A family holiday or a reunion with old friends, full of togetherness.
E) A journey to world-famous landmarks – visiting these once-in-a-lifetime places will stay with me forever.
Question 4: How do you respond when someone around you needs help?
A) I try to help them see the positive side of their situation, even if it’s difficult.
B) I offer my support, no matter how small the gesture may be.
C) I give comfort and show respect to lighten their burden.
D) I bring others together to provide support as a group.
E) I help in ways that are truly useful and create positive memories.
Question 5: What type of love comes most naturally to you?
A) I love giving compliments and uplifting others with words that highlight their inner beauty.
B) I like helping out or taking tasks off someone’s shoulders to show kindness.
C) I express affection through hugs or gentle touches that share closeness and care.
D) I spend quality time with the people who matter to me, strengthening our connection.
E) I enjoy giving small gifts or surprises that make someone smile.
Question 6: When do you feel most loved?
A) When someone sincerely tells me they value my inner beauty and strength.
B) When someone gives me a little something that shows they thought of me.
C) A warm hug that shows they truly care about me and my wellbeing.
D) When someone takes a task off my plate – I feel supported and appreciated.
E) When someone spends quality time with me and we create lasting memories together.
Question 7: Which element do you feel most connected to?
A) Water – it reflects beauty and calm and invites self-reflection.
B) Earth – the ground we walk on, giving life, nourishment, and care.
C) Air – surrounding us everywhere, invisibly connecting people.
D) Fire – bringing people together and giving warmth.
E) Light – illuminating the beauty of the world and gifting us glowing moments in the sun.
Your Result – This Is How You Live Love
Count the letter you chose most often. Your result reveals which Way of Love best reflects your personality:
A – Embracing Beauty
You find love in life’s beauty – inside and out. Whether through words, art, or experiences, you give love by reminding others (and yourself) of the beauty in this world. You see the good in the small things and inspire others with your perspective. For you, love means looking at life with gratitude and wonder – every single day.
B – Giving Kindness
Your love is shown through actions – genuine, selfless, and full of warmth. You’re the person who helps without being asked, compassionate and reliable when others need it most. Your kindness is your superpower – you make the world brighter just by being you. For you, love means creating big impact through small acts.
C – Sharing the Aloha Spirit
For you, love is a feeling that grows through positive energy and respect. You radiate warmth, seek connection, and live with an open heart. The Aloha Spirit is more than a concept – it’s a way of life you share every day: through care, mindful gestures, and true compassion. You bring harmony into relationships and make others feel seen and appreciated.
D – Celebrating Community
Community is at the heart of your love – to you, love means togetherness. You thrive when bringing people together and creating real connections. Family, friends, or team – you strengthen bonds through time, listening, and genuine presence. For you, love isn’t an individual thing – it’s a collective feeling of trust, comfort, and belonging.
E – Creating Moments & Memories
You love by creating unforgettable moments. For you, value doesn’t lie in material things but in the emotions that remain. You design experiences that move, inspire, and connect – whether it’s a spontaneous adventure, a thoughtful gift, or a sunset shared together. Your love lives on in memories that warm the heart – long after the moment has passed.
Share your result and inspire others to discover their very own Way of Love. Get the PURELEI Advent Calendar 2025 for a December full of love, jewelry & Aloha.
With Love, PURELEI
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